It’s been a few days, you guys haven’t been hanging out, haven’t been talking, haven’t been doing much of anything really and every time you reach out it’s always the same answer “mesh fadi.”
It starts getting to your head and you’re starting to wonder, “is he actually busy or is it just an excuse?” Don’t get me wrong, I totally support guys who are actually hustling hard but it doesn’t make sense when he starts giving the “I’m busy” excuse while simultaneously liking and sharing memes on social media. *rolls eyes*
But before you lose your mind, here are a few things you should put in mind:
Welcome to Reality
Fun fact: being an adult is hard! It means that you’ll probably be busy most of the time, but at the end of the day we’re old enough to know how to make time for the people we care about. Simple.
Excuses Are for Losers
Please don’t wait around for someone who’s always ‘busy’ to suddenly realize that they need to incorporate you into their life — whether they’re a he or a she or anyone. Stop waiting around for them to include you in their plans when it’s only convenient for them.
He’s Busy, You’re Busy, We’re all Busy
He’s not the only busy person in the world, remember that you’re busy too, so what makes them special? It’s sad that he has to use the ‘I’m busy’ excuse as if you aren’t equally, if not sometimes even busier than he is.
If You’re Not a Priority Then Tell Him Boy Bye!
Effort is sexy, and if someone isn’t willing to free his time to fit you into his world then you don’t need him anyway. Look for someone who wants to make lasting memories with you; if he doesn’t have time for that then wave it in his face and tell him boy BYE!
Go Get ‘Busy’ on Someone Else
I’ll leave you guys with one of my favorite quotes in the history of quotes:
“If he’s not calling you, it’s because you are not on his mind. If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn’t follow through on little things, he will do same for big things. Be aware of this and realize that he’s okay with disappointing you…” – He’s Just Not That Into You
